Free Love Relationship Advice

You can find free love relationship advice in a relationship advice column, in online advice forums, chat rooms, and in magazine and newspaper articles. The problem with these sources is that they don't deal with you specifically and the unique challenges you as a couple face.

The good news is that there are quality resources and trusted advisors that can offer real relationship help. It's crucial to know that those who offer relationship problem advice have experience and a track record of a successful love relationship of their own.

A great movie, and one that offers wise relationship problem advice to couples is Fireproof. If you cannot afford to buy the movie and truly need free love relationship advice, I suggest you see if your library has the movie or if a friend or family member can loan it to you.

Another wonderful resource for advice about love and relationships are communities of faith. It is likely that one of your local churches offers marriage counseling and marriage seminars. If you are part of a congregation, it is likely that someone in leadership, the pastor, an elder or a mentor, will meet with you to offer advice about your marriage or relationship at no charge. Marriage seminars often require a registration fee, however it is usually quite minimal...and well worth the price.

Many faith communities are using "Fireproof" related materials for couples' counseling and report amazing healing of relationships for those who follow the steps. The Fireproof Your Marriage Couple's Kit includes a 6-session DVD with discussion-starting movie segments and two participant guides that integrate Scriptures and video clips with questions and devotions for each of you and for you together as a couple.

Your local library is a relationship resource you can explore in depth. You'll find shelves full of the best relationship books, videos and DVDs. Check out these resources and explore which get to the heart of your relationship problems.

Look for free love relationship advice from those that have learned how to thrive in a long-term relationship. I love news stories about couples who have been married 50, 60, 70 years or even more. They are always asked by the interviewer: "what is the secret of your long marriage?" The answers inevitably have similar themes of patience, accomodation to each other's needs and determination to make the love relationship last.

If you are so fortunate as to have a couple like this in your family, congregation or neighborhood, ask to spend some time with them. Take them to lunch if they are able to get out at their age, or bring them a meal at home. In exchange you are sure to get an earful of free love relationship advice that will help you begin to think about what makes a long-term relationship successful.


Your happily married family members and friends would likely be very willing to share some free love relationship advice if you ask them. It's a challenge to admit to those close to you that you are struggling with your relationship. Don't be to surprised, however, if they already know it. Many times we suffer right along with the younger couples in the family yet don't know if we are free to offer unsolicited advice. Confide in those you trust; you'll be surprised to learn many have had similar challenges and yet have been able to get beyond the difficulties to a healthy relationship.

Despite the earlier warning about online relationship forums, if you find a good one it can become a "virtual" support community and source of free love relationship advice. A few tips for getting involved in a relationship forum.

• Join and just "listen in" for a while to see if the people in the forum are offering real advice or if the chat room is simply a place to air grievances.
• When you do join the conversation, be very careful not to disclose personal information that could be used to compromise you or your identity.

There are a few shows on talk radio that discuss relationship issues and offer free love relationship advice. One that comes to mind is the Dr. Laura show; there are others that are less well known that might give you some "talking points" for you as a couple. Several cable TV shows deal with love relationships as well.

Let me say again, while all of these can be helpful resources, the best approach to take to rescue a failing love relationship is one that involves real people who know and care about you.

Make a start by discussing your mutual desire as a couple to do what it takes to get the love relationship you want. Take a step together like reading a realtionship book or watching a movie like Fireproof.

Make the next step going together to a trusted person who will give you counsel and advice about your relationship. Finding lasting love is worth any effort.

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