Finding Mom Time

Tips and Suggestions for Busy Moms

Finding "Mom Time" is one of the greatest challenges faced by busy moms. Who wouldn't like to have more time to themselves? Moms are no exception, but they are the ones who never seem to have enough time for the things they enjoy. Between taking care of husbands, children and the house, they barely have time to breath, let alone relax.

What can a mom do to find a little more time for herself? You might not be able to take a week's vacation, but even a few minutes here and there can make a difference. Here are a few ideas to get you started:

Mothers' Day Out: There are many childcare centers, some in churches, that provide a Mothers' Day Out program. These programs do not require that your child be registered for daily care. You can use the program a day here and there as needed. The time could be used for shopping, doctor appointments, or even just going home and pampering yourself. The prices on these programs vary, but it could be worth it to just get an hour or two free.

Play Dates: Depending on the age of your children and their friends, you might be able to arrange play dates for your children. By trading off the play date location, both the friend's mom and you get a break. If it works out well, and more families are willing, you could include another family or two, gaining more free time for all the moms involved.

Tea Time: Taking even a short break during the day can be enough to recharge your batteries. Find a way to keep the kids entertained for a few minutes. It just has to be long enough to sit down and have a cup of your favorite tea, coffee or hot chocolate. The kids could have a snack, or a small craft project (that's easy to clean up). Sit where you can still see the kids, and just relax. If the children are too small to be left alone, put them down for a nap, or wait until they are in bed for the evening.

Date with Dad: It's important for the kids to spend some quality time with dad. Why not suggest he take them out for a mini-date, while you stay home and relax. Have dinner as a family, and then they can go for dessert at the local ice cream store. Or go to a fast food place that has an indoor playground. They can get a treat, and the kids can play for a while, and you get some peace and quite.

Mothers' Helper: Sometimes it's nice to just have another pair of eyes and hands around the house. Many young girls take babysitting courses, but still need experience taking care of young children. If you can hire a mother's helper for an hour or two a week, not only do you get a break, but they also get the needed experience. It is very helpful, especially if you have young children and aren't comfortable leaving them with a sitter yet. You can still be close by, but you don't have to be in the same room. This also makes a better transition when you are ready to leave your children with a sitter.

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